I feel blessed that we give each other space
You know . some days you wake up and it goes downhill from there and all you really want is to be left alone. This isn't a bad thing, we all need our quiet time to reflect on the problem or to just let the bad mood pass. The trick to getting through it is to be understanding .. when your spouse, whom you have missed all day, comes home exhausted and worn out and doesn't feel like being with anyone and letting them just be alone.